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FLASHBACKS

A Few Facts about what flashbacks are.

Flashbacks - are an involuntary, cognitive, and emotional return to a trauma. (In short it is very much like a movie clip playing in your mind)
Flashbacks- can be positive or negative- we usually don't focus on the positive, just the negative.
Flashbacks- can be triggered by, a smell, sound, taste, touch, etc.
Flashbacks- occur when a person is awake and alert. In a person's mind, they believe they are back in the scene.
Flashbacks- are associated with anything a person believes is a trauma.
Flashbacks- will trigger memories of all molest.
Flashbacks- have a cumulative effect. Intensity increases with the number of flashbacks. There is a cumulative effect to the point where the flashback is more intense than the original trauma.
The brain operates by comparing a perceived threat and perceived resources with an increase in number of flashbacks there is a decrease in the perceived available resources. The brain believes each flashback is a separate incident. The mind believes it is in a real situation with each flashback.
Flashbacks - are mostly short term
Associative Flashbacks - is about other related things in this flashback may be able to bring in a rescuer.
Night terrors - are flashbacks when asleep.
Flashbacks - are more intense when there is higher overall level of anxiety.
Psychotic episodes - very infrequent
Flashbacks - are cognitive; involves a lot of memory. Overwhelming, very intense. It doesn't feel like the person has control or can get out of it.
Fear - is what keeps flashbacks going.
Some feel the only way to overcome Flashbacks is to regain the feeling of control in your life. When fear and chaotic feelings are overcame a person may be relieved from them. Each of us has different reactions to rape.
Flashbacks are one of many things that may effect a Survivor. And it is a very personal thing to overcome.
Understanding your flashbacks is only the first step.

Ideas for coping with flashbacks

Tell yourself you are having a flashback and that this is okay and very normal in people who were traumatized as children (or as adults.)
Remind yourself that the worst is over - it happened in the past, but is not happening now. The "child" inside you who was abused is giving you these memories to use in your healing and, however terrible you feel, you survived the awfulness then, which means you can survive and get through what you are remembering now.
Call on the "adult" part of yourself to tell your "child" that she is not alone, not in any danger now, and that you will help her get through this. Let your child self know it's okay to remember and to feel what she feels and that this will help her in healing from what had happened to her. However hard it is for you, she is communicating in the only way she can.
Try some of these ways of "grounding" yourself and becoming more aware of the present:
- stamp your feet, grind them around on the floor to remind yourself where you are now.
- look around the room, noticing the colors, the people, the shapes of things.
- listen to the sounds around you: the traffic, voices, the washing machine etc.
- feel your body, the boundary of your skin, your clothes, the chair or floor supporting you.
- have an elastic band to hand (or on your wrist) - you can "ping" it against your wrist and feel it on your skin - that feeling is in the now, the things you are re-experiencing were in the past.
Take care of your breathing: breathe deeply down to your diaphragm; put your hand there (just above your navel) and breathe so that your hand gets pushed up and down. You can also count - to 5 - as you breathe out and in. When we get scared we breathe too quickly and shallowly and our body begins to panic because we're not getting enough oxygen. This causes dizziness, shakiness and more panic. Breathing slowly and deeply will stop the panic.
If you have lost a sense of where you end and the rest of the world begins, rub your body so you can feel its edges, the boundary of you. Wrap yourself in a blanket, feel it around you.
Get support if you would like it. Let people close to you know about flashbacks so they can help you if you want them to. That might mean holding you, talking to you, helping you to reconnect with the present, to remember you are safe and cared for now.
Flashbacks are powerful experiences which drain your energy. Take time to look after yourself when you have had a flashback. You could have a warm, relaxing bath or a sleep, a warm drink, play some soothing music, or just take some quiet time for yourself. Your "child" and you deserve being taken care of, given all you went through in the past.
When you feel ready, write down all you can remember about the flashback and how you got through it. This will help you to remember information for your healing and to remind you that you did get through it (and can again).
Remember you are not crazy - flashbacks are normal and you are healing.
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Bristol Crisis Service for Women
PO Box 654
Bristol BS99 1XH