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SIGNS
OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
While
no one sign or behavior can be considered absolute proof that sexual abuse has
occurred, you should consider the possibility of sexual abuse when one or
several of these signs or behaviors are present.
Physical
Signs
Scratches,
bruises, itching, rashes, cuts or injuries, especially in the genital area
Venereal
disease
Pregnancy
in (young) adolescents
Blood
or discharge in bedding or clothes, especially underwear
Behavioral
Signs
Aggressive
behavior towards younger children
Advanced
sexual knowledge for the child's age
Seductive
or "sexy" behavior towards adults or peers
Pseudo-mature
behavior (for instance, a girl who is eight and dresses like a 16 year-old,
wears makeup and generally acts "too old for her age," or a young
boy who attempts to be his mother's "man" in every sense of the
word)
Regressed
behavior (for example, the child who has been toilet trained starts wetting
the bed)
Excessive
masturbation, masturbation in public places, difficulty with being re-focused
to another behavior
Poor
relationships with peers
Fear
of a particular person, place or thing (for example, if the abuse occurred in
the bathroom, the child may show fear in that room)
Sudden
or extreme changes in behavior (for instance, a previously good student starts
having trouble with school work, a child who was not sad before starts crying
frequently or acting sad, or a formerly cooperative child acts defiantly or is
uncooperative or unusually overly cooperative)
Eating
disorders (overeats, under-eats)
Additional
Behavioral Signs in Pre-teens and Adolescents
Self-mutilation
(the child may repeatedly pick at scabs, cut him/herself with a razor blade,
bite his/her finger or arm, burn him/herself with a cigarette)
Threatening
or attempting suicide
Using
drugs or alcohol
Becoming
promiscuous (a child is sexually active without discrimination, or just has
that reputation)
Being
prudish (the child avoids any sexuality, does not see him/herself as a sexual
being in any way)
Prostitution
Fire-setting
Lying,
stealing
Running
away
Isolating
self or dropping friends
Pre-occupation
with death (the child may write poems about death, may ask a lot of questions
about death, such as "What does it feel like and where do people
go?")
Some
Additional Behavioral Signs in Children Who Have Been
Ritualistically/Satanically Abused
Bizarre
nightmares
Sadistic
play (for example, mutilation of dolls or small animals)
Self-mutilation
Pre-occupation
with death
Increased
agitation on certain dates which represent satanic high holy days
A
constant fear of harm and extreme fear of being alone
I
am sure there are other signs that I do not have listed here but this is a basic
list of research I have obtained.
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